You know why the people with the biggest hearts are treated like shit? Because we are drawn to people who need fixed and they are drawn to us. There`s a period of need. Intense need. Then you fix them and then they screw you over and then they leave and then you realise you`ve become the one that needs fixing.
Hey you, I guess you’re kind accurate until the part you wrote “intense need”.
But after that, I think that it’s no matter of right or wrong, but how we are different persons. I guess that maybe someone broke your heart really bad and now you indeed need that fix.
But it’s in my personality, to just keep loving, no matter what.
And I can really tell you that I had my heart broken so many times, that sometimes I don’t know how I am capable to love another person in a complete and fully way. But everyone that came into my life, I only know one thing that I’m supposed to do. And that is to love them besides their qualities and defects. And what I love most in a relationship, is that I learn how to get infatuated by their defects while their qualities make me keep in love with them.
So what I have to tell you is that, if you have this big heart that you say. Don’t let anyone shatter it. It’ll be broken over and over, and the disappointment that you’ll have to endure will hurt like hell, but please, always let love win over you again. ‘Cause somehow, that’s the best way to get fixed too.
“Os contos de fadas são assim. Uma manhã, a gente acorda e diz: ‘Era só um conto de fadas…’ E a gente sorri de si mesma. Mas no fundo, não estamos sorrindo. Sabemos muito bem que os contos de fadas são a única verdade da vida.”—O Amor do Pequeno Principe - Antoine de Saint-Exupéry (via livrosecitacoes)